It's been 10 days since i last wrote about the challange. The payday has finally arrive since early february. Thank god!. Even with the payday, there are still CC bills that needs to be paid. Thankfully i'm able to control my emotion and desire to spend. hahaha..
Thanks to hubby and oyin for being so understanding. Oyin ni memang tau je kalau mama takde duit. Selalu faham kalau mama kata tak boleh beli itu dan ini. Kalau semua bende dia blh dapat dengan senang, dia tak akan rasa susah dan nak berusaha untuk dapatkan sesuatu.
Sama ada kita sedar ataupun tidak, kebanyakan duit yang ada dibelanjakan untuk anak. Macam oyin, setiap bulan mama n ayah spent untuk makan, pakai kindi, kumon, swmg dan drama. Ini tak termasuk keinginan dia untuk beli toys setiap kali keluar.
Jadi, untuk kawal keinginan dia, she must give something in return to mama and ayah. ie. kena belajar and dengar kata.
So far, she will understand when i said that mama and ayah have to work to provide food on the table and pay for her class fee. She would also understand that she can request for anything but it is up to us to say yes or no.
Merajuk tu biasa lah kan. Asalkan pandai pujuk, lama-lama dia akan faham juga lah..
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